Lately my narrative and artistic impulses have been leaning more toward visual and tactile expression than the intellectual and writerly.
Not that I’ve stopped writing or anything, only that writing must share time with my expanding slow-stitching practices, especially as I delve deeper into improvisational and intuitive forms.
I learned to embroider the summer I turned 12. My step mother had bought an embroidery kit for me, one complete with a black satin pillow cover stamped with a pattern of two kittens, and a few skeins of DMC floss. It was the first time I ever did well at something right away and she marveled at how quickly I picked up the back stitch, running stitch, stem stitch, and the lazy daisy. The only stitch I couldn’t master that summer was the French Knot.
Embroidery was the perfect past-time for those summers I spent with Dad and his second wife, musicians who traveled the country performing at various hotel lounges, VFW Halls, and the occasional wedding gigs. While daytime hours were spent at the hotel pool, catching an occasional movie in the town’s local theater, and dining on the finest fast food available, evenings were spent alone in the hotel room listening to music and practicing embroidery stitches.
I nearly finished embroidering that satin pillow, with the exception of the French Knots, before returning home to Mom that summer, and still have it. In fact, it is one of extremely few items from childhood that survived multiple relocations, a house fire, two floods, my father’s second divorce, divorce from my first husband, marriage to a second, and even a hurricane. Events that tend to naturally slough off all but the most essential of material goods.
I’ve kept at the practice off and on all these years, even learning cross stitch when that became so popular in the 90s, right up into adulthood and first marriage.
At some point, influenced probably by certain prevailing attitudes over what constitutes art, I convinced myself that embroidery wasn’t really an art form and stopped practicing despite my deep love for it and spent my time instead on, well, raising children, returning to school, studying and writing tons, and generally figuring out some kind of career for myself.
Fortunately, I never quite had the nerve to get rid of all my embroidery supplies, thanks in no small part to a friend who advised me against doing so when I asked if she knew anyone who would want them. Since then, just seeing those many skeins of colorful floss, various embroidery hoops and frames I’d collected over the years, and all the interesting fabrics I stashed away for future projects every time I moved or reorganized my closets reminded me that I could return to embroider any time I liked.
When the Pandemic kept us all home for weeks and months at a time, it was a prime opportunity to rededicate myself to both writing and embroidery. I finished a few projects during that time only to order more patterns and supplies than I probably can not use up in my lifetime.
I am ready now to move beyond patterns and try abstract, improvisational, and intuitive embroidery and look forward to a workshop at Contemporary Craft Saturday.



