On July 4, 2024, my husband and I took off from Charleston, SC, in my Toyota Camry, backseat full of plants and our two cats. We drove nearly nonstop to Pittsburgh, PA, our new home, taking advantage of the light traffic while keeping an eye out for eager highway patrolmen looking to cash in on a double-fine holiday.
I’ve relocated an inordinate amount of times in my life, though there are plenty who have done so more. Still, I think I am fairly good at handling the logistics surrounding a big move, even when across town or to a new state (or country, as was the case in 2009).
But once the concrete logistics are handled and the dishes are arranged neatly into cupboards, it’s the non-tangible aspects of moving that demand attention.
Sometimes these non-tangibles are discovering that the hair stylists in your new city just can’t compete with your old hair stylist, and you’re not so sure the money you save equates to a satisfying cost/benefit ratio.
Other times it’s realizing you haven’t anyone to spend a holiday with.
The most challenging intangibles at stake after a big move, I believe, is one’s sense of normalcy–something already up to interpretation on any given day.
By normalcy I mean the sense that once the dust settles, one’s work routine, hobbies, or habits of writing and editing will naturally pick up where they were left off, totally forgetting that these processes are a matter of stop and start and quite reliant on a little thing called reality.
And by reality I mean unexpected changes to one’s teaching schedule or the bus you rely on to get to work just not showing up one morning.
Also, there were those fifteen inches of snow that fell in one day.
The frenetic pace of keeping up and juggling a plethora of new realities inevitably has caused a lot of important stuff to fall to the wayside.
Which is why I am still sorting through poem submissions.
I mean, I reached out to someone who submitted work on June 11 of last year to see if their poems were still available.
Where did that year do?
Oh yeah. I covered that.
All of this is to say that if you are waiting to hear about work you have sent for consideration I am actually combing through submissions now and hope to respond to you soon.
In the meantime, I appreciate your patience.
And your impatience, too.



